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What Year Is It?

September 4, 2017
September 4, 2017

Twin Peaks: The Return is over. I didn’t think it could affect me like it used to. I thought I was older and more grounded now, and that’s still all true, but I won’t lie: the ending left me profoundly unsettled. My mind is whirling and I’m actually reticent to go to sleep tonight for fear of what I might dream.

The horror of Twin Peaks is its power to meticulously dismantle every norm, to deconstruct reality and turn things literally backwards until you are left wondering what is real; if anything is real at all. And not in a cool Matrix-ey way but in a horrible, “Oh my god the shattered pieces of my mind are crumbling through my fingers” kind of way.

The show’s final episode forces you to ask, “Is he real?” “Is this really happening?” and “Are they actually there?” until you abandon your demands for a rational reality, just digging in your fingernails and hanging on for dear life. It’s a precarious state to enter, and you can’t just turn it off when the show ends.

For the last 25 years Dale Cooper’s doppelgänger’s last question (“How’s Annie?”) has haunted me. For the next 25, the last question of Dale Cooper himself may very well do the same.

Well played, Mr. Lynch. Well played indeed.

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I Don’t Buy It

August 14, 2017
August 14, 2017

Trump spoke out against white supremacy today. He gave a speech calling them “repugnant” and referred to them by name – the KKK, the neo-nazis, white supremacists. Good news, but when I break it down I’m not inclined to believe it was heartfelt. Why?

Well, how much time do you have?

— It was two days late.

— It was delivered with “all the enthusiasm of a hostage video” (this quote from Walter Schaub, Trump’s own former ethics chief).

— It was tele-prompted, which means someone else wrote it for him.

— It came only after enormous pressure from other Republicans.

— It *still* hedged, if you listened to it carefully. “As I said Saturday…” and “As I’ve said before.” Except he’s never made an absolute black-and-white denouncement like this before. Never. Which comes off like a weak dog whistle buried in the noise: “Don’t worry, guys, they’re twisting my arm but I’ve still got your back.”

— It still didn’t directly repudiate their support of him or their use of his name.

— He didn’t tweet it. He’s made 4 tweets today, none of them repudiating white supremacy, and every single human being knows that when he really means something, he tweets it.

— It was sandwiched in between two other appalling actions: a tweeted insult against Ken Frazier (the black man who quit the president’s advisory council over the speech on Saturday), and a threat to pardon Joe Arpaio (the Arizona sheriff who defied a court order instructing him to stop racially profiling people for potential deportation).

There is still some good news here, though. His DoJ is investigating. He was forced to come to the microphone and speak the words they wrote for him, which shows his will can be bent. His approval rating took another shellacking for his sniveling equivocations over the weekend, dropping to 34% in the latest Gallup poll (!!). A campaign to make him prove what he said by firing white supremacists Steve Bannon and Sebastian Gorka is gaining steam, fueled by Trump’s own speech. Outside of the Trump administration, a social media campaign to identify, doxx, and punish the alt-righters who beat Deandre Harris half to death is working incredibly well, and The Daily Stormer, the Nazi website, was dumped by their host (GoDaddy).

But this isn’t a Grinch story. Trump’s heart is just as shriveled and black as it was on Saturday. Yes, the words passed his lips– a lot of words have passed this guy’s lips–but I’m not fooled by them. I’m not breathing a sigh of relief. I look at his actions, and it’s obvious the words he spoke were exactly that:

Words.

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Behold the Spade

August 13, 2017
August 13, 2017

We wake up in a new America today. We wake up in an America where violent terrorists roam the streets flying Nazi flags. This is not hyperbole. It is not a drill. It is the literal description of what happened in Charlottesville yesterday.

Any pretense that young members of the alt-right are simply disillusioned hipsters speaking out ironically against overwrought political correctness is now eradicated.

These people gathered in mobs to beat down black people, in the street, in broad daylight. They chanted “Heil Trump” and physically attacked the peaceful protesters who came to peacefully oppose them. One of their number murdered a white woman (who we don’t even know for sure was involved in the protest) with his car, and hit or ran over 19 others. For those playing along at home, this is the LITERAL EXACT SAME TACTIC that ISIS is using in Europe.

These scumbags, these dirt-eaters, these double-talkers with their constant equivocations and slimy insinuations, have shown their true colors. The masks are literally off. We owe them no more excuses and no more consideration, no more delicate tip-toeing around common decency and Godwin’s law. We know their names, every one of them earned and owned:

Racist. Bigot. Terrorist. Nazi.

Nazi.

Nazi.

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Transgender People

July 26, 2017
July 26, 2017

Let me tell you a little secret about “transgender people.” It’s a two-part term. An adjective and a noun, and I’d like to talk about both of them.

The adjective – “transgender” – can be scary and foreign to a lot of people who have never had occasion to use it in their own lives. I’m a male who was born with the traditional boy parts, I’ve never felt like I was supposed to be something else, so the idea that someone COULD feel that way is quite alien to me. Does it weird me out? Sure, sometimes. It may weird you out sometimes, too, and that’s okay.

There is also a noun. The noun is “people.” This part of the term is just as important, if not more important, than the adjective. “People,” as in human beings. Sentient entities, with consciousnesses and consciences. Emotions. Real people. Actual people. Flesh and blood. People you’ve met. People you live with. People who deserve the same basic common decency, courtesy, consideration and benefits of the doubt that you give to all other people.

Here’s the secret: the adjective in front of the noun doesn’t change any of that. Even with the adjective there, they’re still people. If I get weirded out by that adjective, that is not an excuse to treat them differently. That’s my problem to handle.

I expect people to be able to choose their own bathroom. That doesn’t change if the people are transgender.

I expect people to be able to choose their own sexual and life partners. That doesn’t change if the people are transgender.

I expect people to have the privacy of doing whatever they want in their own bedrooms, and for that privacy to be reciprocated to me. That doesn’t change if the people are transgender.

And, most germane today, I expect people who are interested in serving their country through the military to be allowed to do so. “Transgender” is an adjective, not a physical or mental barrier to military service. If it weirds someone out, then a) it is incumbent upon that person to deal with that, and b) how can we ever expect that to change if transgender people are refused access to certain institutions?

Today’s announcement from the Commander-in-Chief is yet another giant step backward for this country. It is sad, embarrassing, cruel, and frankly primitive. It is founded on a belief that the adjective matters more than the noun; that being “transgender” takes precedence over being “people.” It is an appalling decision, particularly when you consider that many transgender soldiers stopped hiding their adjectives after they were told it would be safe to do so. Now, I assume, all those people will be summarily dismissed from military service – because the Commander-in-Chief is weirded out, and too much of a thin-skinned, bigoted whiner to handle it like a man.

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The Wrong Question

July 21, 2017
July 21, 2017

“How did the universe begin?” That’s the question, right? Science tries to answer it. Religion tries to answer it. Where did we come from, what is our purpose—the two ideas are tied together for us. We grow up and live our lives believing the answer is somehow fundamental to the meaning of life.

I had an idea yesterday, though. What if the question itself is flawed? It certainly seems hard to answer—science posits the idea of the Big Bang, but the follow-up of course is, “Where did the Big Bang come from?” Religion says “God” as if that will answer everything, but it, too, is not immune to that follow-up. Where did God come from? The question is endlessly recursive. You can always ask “why?” or “how?” one more time, no matter what response you’re given.

It makes me wonder if there’s something wrong with the question itself. The inherent assumption that there was a beginning. Conservation of energy tells us nothing ever really goes away. There are no beginnings or endings—only transformation. When you throw out your old chair, it doesn’t vanish. It goes to the dump, eventually (hopefully) breaking down into its constituent pieces and becoming food for bacteria. When you eat a carrot, it doesn’t cease to exist. Your body converts it into energy and waste. There is no empirical example of cessation or spontaneous genesis in nature. Everything becomes something else, and sometimes we call this “the end”—for example, when someone dies—or “the beginning”—for example, when a child is born. But they aren’t truly ends or beginnings. They just appear that way, because of how our perception limits us.

What if we are extending this flawed perception to the whole of existence? Using it to formulate a question that is based on a flawed assumption and is therefore meaningless? Like an ant crawling around a basketball asking, “Where is the end?” when in fact there is no end or beginning.

The question itself is flawed: the ball is round.

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A Criminal Act

July 11, 2017
July 11, 2017

All right, look. I know there’s been a lot of noise about the “Russia Thing.” I know if it seemed quite obvious to you months ago that Trump was guilty, that it’s been easy to tune out new developments. “If no one’s acted up until now, why would anyone act now?” I get it. The new revelations, the steady drip-drip-drip just serve to reinforce the fear that no one will ever do anything, that we’re stuck with this, that this is the new normal.

If you’ve made the mistake of letting the emails Trump Jr. released today fade into the background noise, like I did, I strongly encourage you to rethink that decision.

This is the son of the President, at the time the son of the Republican candidate for President, actively requesting information from a foreign power for the express purpose of sabotaging the Democratic candidate. This is illegal. It doesn’t even matter whether the information was received. It doesn’t matter if Trump Jr. tries to claim he was “joking.” The solicitation itself is illegal.

This is as deep inside as you can get, short of an admission from the President himself. This is the biggest crack in the wall we’ve seen yet. And if you have a Republican representative—in either the House or Senate—I really hope you’ll call them today and tell them you’ve had enough. It is time to light a fire.

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Let’s Rock: At Long Last, Twin Peaks Returns

May 31, 2017
May 31, 2017

Warning: Major spoilers for the original Twin Peaks and minor ones for the new series follow (but don’t worry, the identity of Laura Palmer’s killer is not one of them).

There are two great, lifelong loves that I have to thank my Aunt Bobbi for bringing into my life. One is Stephen R. Donaldson (specifically, The Chronicles of Thomas Covenant). The other is Twin Peaks.

When Twin Peaks premiered I was 13 years old, a creature brimming with awkward shyness, fanatical but erratic religious faith, and passion for the horrific and bizarre. Twin Peaks scratched all those itches and then some. I was a fan from the first episode. Every character dripped with melodrama or eccentricities. Intimations of terror threatened from just beneath many of the scenes, especially those featuring Laura’s mother and her heart-stopping visions of BOB lurking behind the furniture in her house. My first exposure to the Black Lodge (as Cooper’s dreamworld in episode 3) hooked me for life. The night I learned who killed Laura Palmer became the first of several sleepless nights to follow. I watched it all — yes, even the “bad” season 2 — and loved it. The ending, with Agent Cooper seemingly succumbing to possession by the evil BOB, left me devastated and enthralled. Long before Firefly or Dead Like Me, Twin Peaks taught me the bittersweet pain of a fan deprived of the source of their joy before its time. The film prequel, Fire Walk With Me, did little to soothe this pain, instead leaving me raw and filled with longing.

For years afterward, rumors of a third season swirled. I was too young and too naive to understand that I shouldn’t get my hopes up, and was disappointed again and again. I was forced to console myself by hunting down rare editions of the original pilot and the then-elusive second season on VHS, doing my best to spread the gospel by subjecting my friends and family to weekend-long marathon viewings, and incorporating the best of Agent Cooper’s lines into my daily lexicon to ensure their well-deserved immortality (“This is — excuse me — a DAMN fine [insert name of food product here]”). I became a ravenous fan of David Lynch, watching everything he’d done from the utterly bizarre Eraserhead to, years later, Mulholland Drive.

Awfully, the cast started to die, beginning with Frank A. Silva — BOB himself. One by one, my hopes died with them. In my twenties I was finally able to watch season 2 and see the flaws critics had been harping on since the beginning, finding a way to embrace the good but acknowledge the bad. Twin Peaks had been a phenomenon, something fantastic and flawed and unique that I’d had the incredible privilege of experiencing as it happened. I made my peace with it. Life went on.

And then, a couple years ago, long after I’d given up, the rumors started up again. A third season. Mark Frost and David Lynch collaborating. Kyle Maclachlan signed on.

I didn’t believe it. I wouldn’t let myself believe it.

But it was true. And the weekend before last, I got to watch the first four episodes of the new season of Twin Peaks.

My wife watched with me, god bless her, even though my showing of Eraserhead on our first date nearly short-circuited our relationship before it even started. She knew what it meant to me, how long I’d been waiting for it. But as always when I watch Twin Peaks with a person whose opinion I care about, her presence added a layer of trepidation, an extra hurdle for the show to clear. I was nervous, and the first episode proved my nerves out.

It barely touched the town of Twin Peaks, and the characters it did show had aged so much they were nearly unrecognizable. The plot was thin on the ground, inasmuch as it existed at all. It was largely a collage of disassociated scenes, and while I could glimpse a bit of where it might be going, it was disappointing. The original Twin Peaks was clear out of the gates as to the stakes and the setup: “Who killed Laura Palmer?” This had nothing like that, no clear theme to grasp and carry the viewer forward — and even worse, it had a predictable horror-cliché scene wherein teens got slaughtered for getting too horny and having sex at the wrong time.

But Agent Cooper was there. Hawk and Lucy were there. Albert (talk about a bittersweet appearance — RIP Miguel Ferrer) was there. The Black Lodge — oh the Black Lodge, that magnificent, sober acid trip nightmare — was there, and so was Cooper’s BOB-possessed doppelganger, the bastard. And so we watched another episode, and then another, and then the last of the four in the initial batch.

And — Hello-o-o!! — god help me if I wasn’t in love all over again.

The show is about Cooper now, I realized — as it always had been. I had sort of expected him to just return quickly, to get the show back to whatever passed for “normal,” but thankfully I was completely wrong. The rest of the characters are put on a slow-burn ramp up while his bizarre journey back takes center stage. It is a fantastic, meandering course through the best of David Lynch’s star-flung imagination, and I relished every second of it, every scene, clinging to them with all the fervor of that long-gone 13-year-old. And when Cooper at last escapes the Black Lodge, he can’t help continuing to interpret every mundane event and bit of throwaway dialog as an omen, because he has spent TWENTY-FIVE YEARS IN THE BLACK LODGE and how can he even remember how to hear anything else? As I write these words, I realize David Lynch’s genius in this — Cooper post-Black Lodge is every 27-year Peaks fan, certain that every scene and utterance holds hidden meaning for them. And even that realization plays into the very conceit it uncovers, hunting for symbolism where there may be none.

No, this is not the original Twin Peaks. This has far more Blue Velvet and Lost Highway in its DNA than the original series ever had, but there are hints of the original show’s idiosyncrasies here, getting excavated slowly like artifacts at a dig site: chocolate bunnies and hot coffee (Is it the bunny?). It’s almost as if Lynch is teasing me, doling it out slowly to keep me on the hook — but I’ll be damned if it’s not working. If it had met my expectations, if it had been just what I’d hoped for, it would’ve been a failure.

Instead it is glorious. It is funny. It is perfect. I love it.

Welcome back, Mr. Jackpots. I missed you so, so much.

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To Blame or Not To Blame

May 23, 2017
May 23, 2017

Is religion to blame for the violent acts of its practitioners? Does Islam deserve to be held to account when terrorists act on its most violent teachings, claiming a “fundamentalist” belief in them?

As an atheist who left his “angry atheist” phase awhile ago, I’ve been grappling with this question anew in the wake of the events in Manchester. I don’t want to unfairly malign any religion or its practitioners; at the same time, I refuse to just close my eyes and pretend calls to violence don’t exist. If a given practitioner of ANY religion chooses to disregard parts of a religious text because they feel those parts are too violent or don’t fit into their worldview, good for that person — but I wish more of those people would take that opportunity to then go the next step and question the underlying text itself. What good is a religious text that requires a “conscience filter” from its readers? Remember, these books, whether we’re talking about the Bible or the Quran, claim to be infallible. One mistake should call into question that claim of infallibility, and ultimately, the entire text.

As it stands, the question of whether to blame the religion feels largely academic. What does it mean to “blame the religion”? Does that mean blaming the book, or blaming the institutions that spring up around the book? The first makes sense — if a book says “kill the people who disagree with you,” that book absolutely needs to be brought to account and should not be forgiven its claims. The second, though, is where the question gets thorny. On face, certain institutions (the fundamentalist ones) are obviously to blame for the violence. But how can peace-loving institutions be held blameless, when they claim to rely on the exact same book for their beliefs?

Ultimately, my issue with “blaming a religion” is that it is too broad a blanket. Like many other labels, it hits every individual person that falls under that label, when in actuality those individuals run the gamut from the murderers of ISIS to pacifists who wouldn’t hurt a fly. It always comes back to people and their individual choices, of course — but denying that those choices can be influenced by the violent passages in a book claiming to be the infallible word of God seems, to me, naive.

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One Last Song

March 14, 2017
March 14, 2017
We’ve all heard near-death experience stories. A very common experience seems to be “heading toward the light.” I don’t believe in an afterlife, but I can’t deny that the story has come up too often across too many cultures for there to be no legitimacy to it. I imagine that it’s a commonality hardwired into the human brain, that somehow, some way, it’s a frequent pre-death hallucination, kind of like when people see their lives “flash before their eyes.”
 
“But Adam,” you may protest, “if it’s just an illusion, then it means nothing. It doesn’t matter.” For me, that’s not true. Imagine a dream of awakening in a glorious place that is your personal take on heaven, just before you pass into oblivion. In the way of dreams, it requires no logic or justification to function, and it is the last experience you have. I don’t think that’s a bad deal. I’ve had some truly fantastic, uplifting dreams. I’d love for one of those to be my final experience, one that I can believe is eternal even while I cease to exist.
 
So, all of that is to preface this fun fact about me:
 
On occasion, when I hear a song (especially if it’s one I really like but haven’t heard in a long time), I imagine what it would be like if that song were the last one I heard.
 
Not like it was playing in the background when I died, but like my brain queues it up and plays it for me, perfectly, as I launch toward the light in my final moment. It plays as the soundtrack as I go down the tunnel toward oblivion. It becomes not just a song I enjoy, but the final anthem of my life.
 
The fun part, of course, is that the dreaming brain doesn’t care what we want. The song it chooses as it dies could be anything — something somber, something silly, or anything in between. It could be Vivaldi, Dr. Dre, a remix of a video game soundtrack, or the latest Taylor Swift single. It’s an interesting thought experiment because it forces me to ascribe all kinds of meaning to every individual component of the music — not just the lyrics (if it has any), but the melodies, the beat of the percussion, the bass line. All of it.
 
I went through a phase of my life, after I stopped believing in God, when the concept of death terrified me on a daily basis. Weirdly, this concept of one last song helped me come to terms with it. Yes, death is inevitable. Yes, it comes for everyone. Yes.
 
And yet —
 
As the song starts there is a spark of recognition; an instant of joy like recognizing an old friend. As it continues into the chorus and the bridge I forgive all its faults and relish every piece of it. There is no more private way to hear a piece of music, no mockery — either from within or without — in this moment. I cling to every instant of it, wring every bit of insight and memory from its notes. The music spools out and I can sense the end is coming, but there is no fear, only happiness that I was allowed this final moment, this final experience. The ending might come with a triumphant flourish or a gentle fading. Either way, its final moments are my final moments; I hold its hand as we die together.
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The Knife’s Edge

February 15, 2017
February 15, 2017

Let’s take stock.

My country now has an Executive branch which lost the popular vote and is likely compromised by a foreign government – a government which is historically hostile to the United States and has a vested interest in curbing the U.S.’s global power as it attempts countless power grabs for itself. Wars which were unthinkable four months ago now loom all around us.

It has a crippled Judicial branch missing 13% of its federal judges and a dysfunctional, 8-member Supreme Court, due to a concerted effort on the part of that Executive’s political party to cripple it and keep it crippled.

And it has a gerrymandered Legislative branch under the control of the same political party, which refuses to investigate the Executive because they share a party, regardless of the unprecedented and terrifying news that is exposed day by day or the desperate efforts of the nation’s intelligence and free press communities.

In ten years, we will look back at these days in one of two ways.

We will lament the fall of modern day Rome.

Or we will celebrate the moment when we rose up as one and took power back.

We can still seize the rudder, though time is quickly running out. We can still push back, and push and push and push until the rotten tumor at the heart of our government tumbles over a cliff. We still have a hope of a future where we can say, “That was the year we woke up. That was the year we said, ‘No more.’ That was the moment – on the cusp of their victory over compassion and reason – that we stood, and we fought, and we won.” We can still realize a future where we set the childish notions of pollution and hatred behind us. Where we require our technology to be subservient to our wisdom, not the other way around. Where we begin to transform this planet into something thriving, holistic, and beautiful, a realization of humankind’s greatest and deepest potential.

But it is a mutually exclusive proposition. We are on the knife’s edge, and gravity is pulling us the other way – away from that magnificent future, and toward failure.

That failure means surrendering not only a hundred years of social policy advancement, decades of climate work, and a social expectation of safety and respect. Those things were largely products of the past that some of us had foolishly taken for granted, but losing this fight also means losing the future. It means falling into a modern dark age, where science is ridiculed, the truth is determined solely by our malevolent leadership, and “social justice” becomes a term of mockery. It means watching the world literally suffocate under the weight of its own pollution, and witnessing an apocalypse that unfolds in slow motion over the span of our lifetimes: storms that annihilate our homes and extinctions that devastate our food supply. It means starving and warring and dying, all while the men in charge shriek that it’s not real and wage war against those who dare to trust evidence, condemning, imprisoning, or killing them.

Some say our children will ask us, “Where were you? What did you do?” I say we will ask ourselves.

The dangers in play in the U.S. are replicated worldwide. This all comes back to who we are as a species. We are explorers, investigators, and creators. We have discovered unprecedented wonders of technology, but if we don’t define them, they will define us. This is the moment when we decide whether the energy we’ve discovered destroys us, or propels us forward; whether our powers of communication create a brilliant focus on truth, or suffocate us in lies.

This is not just the most vital moment of your life. It is not just the most vital moment of my nation’s existence.

It is the most critical moment for our species in modern history.

We must stand up.

We must fight.

We must win.

 

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